Editorial Reviews About the Author John Rosemond is a family psychologist who has directed mental-health programs and been in full-time private practice working with families and children. Since , he has devoted his time to speaking and writing. He is one of the busiest and most popular speakers in the field, giving more than talks a year to parent and professional groups nationwide. He and his wife of 39 years, Willie, have two grown children and six well-behaved grandchildren. Product details File Size: September 20, Sold by: Share your thoughts with other customers.
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There was a problem filtering reviews right now. Please try again later. This book will trouble any enabling parents who blame teachers for an able student refusing to study. For others, willing to hold their children accountable, it offers a proven method to motivate students. I am a retired English teacher as well as former school principal. This was my go-to method for parents willing to take serious steps to make their non performing children own up to their responsibilities as students.
Exceptional book with tips for both parents and teachers. Takes some of the biggest struggles and challenges with homework and gives relevant, easy tips for how to solve them in your home. I haven't looked at homework the same since picking up this book, and I pick up some new tips each time I read it! I'm a huge fan of this book, and I think it will change your viewpoint and practices on assisting and supporting your child with homework.
One person found this helpful. In an easy and approachable style, Mr. Rosemond provides well organized suggestions for dealing with the drama of homework struggles faced by many parents. After reading the book, I felt empowered to guide my child firmly through what has been a difficult situation for many years. Also, the book emphasizes the detriment of excessive TV watching on children's formation of necessary life skills.
I imagine the principle is the same, but I would like to see an update of the book to specifically address all of the electronic devices that children now routinely utilize. I wanted to rate this 3.
On the other hand, if your homework-challenged child does not have a lot in terms of things to take away, this book doesn't offer much in terms of remedies. Not every parent wishes to or can afford to give their child a computer, or a TV--or maybe the child is a voracious reader and could care less about being confined to quarters. Are you going to take away all of a child's books for failing to do homework much of which is pointless anyway, to be honest here, and smart children know this?
Somehow I doubt it. As to his checklists that he wants the teacher to sign off on, well, good luck. Not only do teachers have more and more admin work these days, the schools in many cases are trying to push the daily signing off nonsense onto the parents with those unnecessary student planners. Either the work is done, or it isn't. Daily check-off sheets are just an annoyance to the adults who have to deal with them. What is most valuable about this book, is the way he explains how the responsibility for homework completion should be on the child, and that it is not your job to be teaching concepts, helping with homework and signing off on checklists.
Unfortunately, the schools have brainwashed parents into actually doing homework and projects with and for their children under the guise of "being involved" --to the point of textbooks and worksheets assigning homework telling parents to do flashcard practice, or other drill work!!
Yes, you are an interested parent, you go to the Open Houses and Parent Conferences, but you are firm in your resolve that school is your child's responsibility, or "job", if you'd like to think of it in those terms. It gives a few good ideas on how to address kids not doing homework. Its not a complete solution but gives a few tips that may help you understand whats going on with the kid.
Thats probably more helpful than the how to get the kid to do the homework. Wow was this my kid. In the center of the kitchen and wife hoovering about him. He loves x box and this is now what he gets as a reward when grade are kept up. Push more responsibility onto him, painful at first but stuck to my guns and is paying off. Mind you he will still want to slip back in his way, and my wife follow.
Homework is not undesirable. Homework is part of life. Routine also includes what kids are wearing. This sounds a little crazy, but for kids with sensory intensities, and even those without, changing into really comfy clothes can help. Tight or pinching waistbands or too-tight necklines can create issues.
Avoid stopping at the low-hanging fruit of boredom.
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Being smart is no get-out-of-work free card. Do they struggle to really know how to study? I have ideas about that.
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This conversation should not occur at homework time. Make sure everyone is happy and calm before bringing this up unless you need more drama in your life. Sometimes there is no reason, or at least not one the student can describe. Kids feel time pressure, too. Charts and checklists can help kids with executive functioning, but also just with general homework management. You can poke around for checklists that work for you. Make sure you have a checklist that includes the routine. For example, unpacking and repacking the backpack, planning out the homework time, etc. You may want a checklist for each day or one for a week.
You may want subjects listed separately. Try out a few of them and pick the one that works best for you.
How to Help with Homework: Tips for Ending the Homework Hassle
When I was teaching, I would indicate how long the assignment should take. I write about this more deeply in my book. Pay attention to the communication coming home from the teacher. Actually read the website and newsletter, if they exist. Parents should communicate with kids and teachers. Teachers should communicate with parents and students.
Students should communicate with parents and teachers. I think that pretty much covers it. One key cause of rebellion against homework is that kids especially our GT kiddos struggle to find value in the homework. Why should I have to do it? They can have an existential crisis over a single sheet of math facts practice. Before homework is begun, have the child figure out what value and purpose is available in the assignment.
How to Help with Homework: Tips for Ending the Homework Hassle
Something that takes practice. Parents can practice when kids are practicing. Pull out your own homework, and send a powerful message that you never outgrow learning. You would be surprised. All kids, not just GT kids need to step away from school and pursue other interests at home.
It would be helpful to give these 11 tips at the beginning of the school year during Back to School Night. Your email address will not be published.
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